{"id":905,"date":"2018-09-24T11:16:53","date_gmt":"2018-09-24T15:16:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/walkingdeadman.com\/?p=905"},"modified":"2018-09-24T11:16:53","modified_gmt":"2018-09-24T15:16:53","slug":"rationalization-of-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/walkingdeadman.com\/index.php\/2018\/09\/24\/rationalization-of-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Rationalization of Life!"},"content":{"rendered":"

We are forever lying to ourselves about life. First and foremost, most tend not\u00a0<\/em>to take responsibility for their own situations in life. It\u2019s always \u201che or she made me do this or that\u201d! Or \u201cit\u2019s not my<\/em> fault\u201d!\u00a0We feel that putting blame on the next person will exonerate us. Not cool! My diagnosis of stage IV lung cancer is something I\u2019ve learned to accept. Primarily it was \u201cboo hoo, why me?\u201d But as time went by instead of giving blame to everyone and everything, I assumed responsibility for my life and where I am in it. We have to recognize the simple fact that no one is like a leaf at the mercy of the wind! Once you know this you\u2019ll assume responsibility for your life. No matter who you are or\u00a0where\u00a0<\/em>you are in life, you are there because of your own choices and decisions! Do not put the blame on the next person. Unless someone has a gun to your head you have to take responsibility for whatever life brings. I no longer see from a place of pity. Each and every person in the world are where they are because of their own choices in life. Accept and live life assiduously! Keep faith in the Almighty and take charge of your life! Peace and blessings!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We are forever lying to ourselves about life. First and foremost, most tend not\u00a0to take responsibility for their own situations in life. It\u2019s always \u201che or she made me do this or that\u201d! Or \u201cit\u2019s not my fault\u201d!\u00a0We feel that […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-905","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-living-life-with-cancer"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8zBYf-eB","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2589,"url":"https:\/\/walkingdeadman.com\/index.php\/2026\/09\/03\/subject-to-change\/","url_meta":{"origin":905,"position":0},"title":"subject to change","author":"Michael","date":"September 3, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"i have something to sayto some may seem strangethere are things in my lifethat are subject to change now do not get me wrongi know what i claimcircumstances ariseno one is to blame with my life at riskand time at its essencei will never denybelief of God\u2019s presence so i\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "Living life with cancer!"","block_context":{"text":"Living life with cancer!","link":"https:\/\/walkingdeadman.com\/index.php\/category\/living-life-with-cancer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/walkingdeadman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_8958-scaled.jpeg?resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/walkingdeadman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_8958-scaled.jpeg?resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/walkingdeadman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_8958-scaled.jpeg?resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/walkingdeadman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_8958-scaled.jpeg?resize=700%2C400 2x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/walkingdeadman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_8958-scaled.jpeg?resize=1050%2C600 3x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/walkingdeadman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_8958-scaled.jpeg?resize=1400%2C800 4x"},"classes":[]},{"id":2572,"url":"https:\/\/walkingdeadman.com\/index.php\/2026\/06\/29\/eleven-years\/","url_meta":{"origin":905,"position":1},"title":"ELEVEN YEARS!","author":"Michael","date":"June 29, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"Eleven years ago today, I received what I believed at the time was a death sentence: Stage IV lung cancer. It was not. Ironically, I walked out of that doctor\u2019s office with my head held high. 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The simple fact is that I've made it this far in my life\u00a0only through the grace of God! 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