{"id":983,"date":"2018-10-28T14:42:51","date_gmt":"2018-10-28T18:42:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/walkingdeadman.com\/?p=983"},"modified":"2018-10-28T14:42:52","modified_gmt":"2018-10-28T18:42:52","slug":"the-realness-of-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/walkingdeadman.com\/index.php\/2018\/10\/28\/the-realness-of-life\/","title":{"rendered":"The Realness of Life!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Realness?<\/p><\/div>\n

No matter the length of time it takes but sooner or later the recognition of how ambiguous life is comes to the forefront. Do we live\u00a0<\/em>life or do we\u00a0serve\u00a0<\/em>life? To live\u00a0<\/em>life means you are free. Free from being bound to the everyday grind. Free to choose how\u00a0<\/em>you live. This way of living may sound strange but we are programmed to believe we have to serve\u00a0<\/em>life rather than\u00a0live <\/em>it!\u00a0To serve\u00a0<\/em>life means you are a slave. You are a cog in a wheel that grinds you down for 20 to 30 years of life. Your creativity stagnates and disappears completely. And when the great machine is finished with you it spits you out and gives you a paltry, so-called \u201cpension\u201d that\u2019s not even enough to live on! My\u00a0diagnosis has broken the chains of my everyday life. Since I never worked long enough to retire in the actual, I always felt left out. You know… like I was missing out on a basic part of life. Now that I see from a different perspective and without hubris I\u2019m happy that I never got that chance. It seems to me that once you retire from a job you more or less retire from life also! This is when you choose whether to live or not. Either get busy living or get busy dying. The majority of people I know that have retired are either deceased or working another job. I was given a blessing in the disguise of stage IV lung cancer! I was indubitably headed towards\u00a0serving<\/em> for the rest of my life instead of\u00a0living\u00a0<\/em>for the rest of it! I thank the Almighty for giving me my strength in this testimony of mine. I am living life like never before! I am at peace! I am happy! Serenity fills me! Peace and blessings!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

No matter the length of time it takes but sooner or later the recognition of how ambiguous life is comes to the forefront. Do we live\u00a0life or do we\u00a0serve\u00a0life? To live\u00a0life means you are free. Free from being bound to 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